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stinky cheese man

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USM is pretty welcoming for students not in the greek system. i am told (by my children) that there are lots of "progressive" students at USM--more so than at other universities.

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Seeker

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"How is USM for students are not in the Greek system?"


I will tell you what I gained from begin a Greek at USM. I joined my fraternity because , of the individuals I met there. I didn't go thru formal rush as an incoming freshman, if I had I would have probably not made a wise choice on which organization I joined.

I joined my fraternity because I saw the opportunity to become involved in something bigger than just myself. I found a group of individuals that shared many of the values, characteristcs and goals that I had. The fraternity I joined at the time had the highest GPA on campus, far above the AMA (all male average) and still knew how to have a good time, while having a positive impact on the community.

I gained leadership skills by serving in leadership rolls with the fraternity and in other campus organizations. I learned responsiblilty and grew up a lot during the time I was a fraternity member.

But, most of all I gained some of the best friends that I will ever have. We all attend football games and other events on campus, but to be honest. I probably wouldn't attend nearly as many events on campus, if it was not giving me an excuess to get together with my Fraternity Brothers.

As for being a non-Greek at USM, to be honest you will be the vast majority. I don't know a great deal about being a non-Greek at USM, because I was only a non-Greek one semester.

I think the biggest advantage of being a Greek (aside from the friends I made) is that I always had something to do....I don't know if I would have been involved as much on campus if I had not went Greek.

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"USM is pretty welcoming for students not in the greek system. i am told (by my children) that there are lots of "progressive" students at USM--more so than at other universities. "


STM

I am going to have to ask you to define "progressive" here. I think I know what you mean, and if you are thinking what I am think, I would say yeah, there are a lot of those "students" at USM.

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"The IFC did a study on University giving, across the board, and the number of donars to the Univeristy as a whole was a vast majority Greek."

Seeker, that's because, thanks to their parents, fraternity boys usually have more money to give. They would have given whether or not they were in a fraternity. I trust you are not suggesting that fraternity membership causes one of be a big contributor. And why would the IFC conduct such a study anyway? Regarding attending musical and theatrical events on weekends, anybody can attend those without being member of a fraternity. I've attended them on weekends for many years. Didn't see lots of Greeks in the audience.

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stinky cheese man

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seeker--i don't know how to define "progressive." it's a term my kids use.

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"How is USM for students who are not in the Greek system?"


One of the 'quirks' that I have never understood is that USM deliberately arranges class schedules to accommodate the "suitcase college" mentality.  Regularly-scheduled MWF classes never meet after 2 PM Fridays, as "late afternoon" MW classes have "expanded" time on Mondays and Wednesdays to enable "free" Friday afternoons."


Then again, in a town where Thursday night is the biggest "party night" of the week, I guess I shouldn't be surprised.


 



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Seeker

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"Seeker, that's because, thanks to their parents, fraternity boys usually have more money to give. They would have given whether or not they were in a fraternity. I trust you are not suggesting that fraternity membership causes one of be a big contributor. And why would the IFC conduct such a study anyway? Regarding attending musical and theatrical events on weekends, anybody can attend those without being member of a fraternity. I've attended them on weekends for many years. Didn't see lots of Greeks in the audience. "


The point that I am making and you keep missing is this. Being a member of a Greek organization gives a student a connection to the University that they usually would not have without it. It gives incentive to come back to the University, to give back to the University. As for the study, the IFC wanted to see what % of donors university wide were Greeks. The report if I remember correctly had nothing to do with dollar amount giving. Again sighting from memory, over 80% of individuals giving to USM were Greek. Yet, at no time in USM's history has the Greek population exceeded 15%. I think Greeks give back to USM in a higher rate because, they are more connected with the University, that's all.

You hate Greek organizations, that's clear. You're not going to change any minds here. I think, you are just using a classic leftist guise of class-warfare.

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".....the Greek system.....maybe they are useful in some way for students who are unable or unwilling to assimilate into the main stream of campus life."


Animal House,


I believe your post gets to the root of the matter. Some students have a difficult time making close friendships within the college community at large. A small circle of friends, such as is afforded by the Greek system, can be useful for them.



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" But maybe they are useful in some way for students who are unable or unwilling to assimilate into the main stream of campus life."

Fraterneries, along withe athlettics, does constitutte the main streem of caumpus liffe. They was good for Seaker and they was goud for me.

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"you are just using a classic leftist guise of class-warfare. "

Wrong again, Seeker. I am a conservative and I am a Republican. I have often noticed that when someone does not agree with another's views, they label them as "leftist." Did you say "class-warfare?" Nonsense. It's just that I think university functions are for every student and not restricted to the wealthy and well dressed.

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Seeker brings up an interesting point. From the first time I taught freshmen as a TA (about 20 years ago) I have strongly believed that first-semester freshmen should not be allowed to rush or pledge. I've seen too many of them advsersely affected. They need those first few months to totally focus on school work, getting used to the big differences in high school and college, being away from home, and all of that.



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I think some people on both sides of this are guilty of some stereotyping.  I can see two sides of this issue.  I'm the student that is talked about often on this board.  I'm a graduate of a Mississippi public high school with above a 30 on the ACT.  I was also a member of a sorority at one of the "other two" universities in the state.  However, I'm also a member of the club of academia as I have a Ph.D. 


I agree with a lot that has been said.  Some one said that Greek organizations do have their place for some students and I couldn't agree more.  My Greek organization provided me with many leadership opportunities.  I was able to develop my leadership skills, as well as public speaking skills.  I learned how to effectively run meetings.  I can honestly say that attending parties was my least favorite part of my experience and I skipped many.  That's not to say that there weren't many in my group that were only in it for the parties.  The whole point is that you can't stereotype Greek or non-Greeks because they are both diverse groups.  Some will give back to the university.  Some won't.  Some worked at community service, made a difference for the university, and supported university functions.  Some of both groups didn't.  My Greek experience expanded my education rather than hindered it.  It even helped me continue my graduate studies as I received a scholarship from my Greek organization while working on my doctorate. 


To get back to the original point of this thread, (which was why USM has more in-state students than the other two) I can't answer that.  During my high school years I felt like USM took for granted that local students would attend and didn't bother recruiting them.  I did not receive a tenth of the mail from Southern that I received from Ole Miss or State.  I knew a person who made a perfect score on the ACT and the first piece of mail this person received from USM arrived the day after a huge story about him/her appeared in the Hattiesburg American.  All the outstanding students at Mississippi high schools don't leave the state.  (Of the 4 30+ I remember from my high school class, one went to Southern, two to State, and one to Ole Miss.)  I stayed in state because all of my expenses were paid for by scholarships.  I got scholarship offers from liberal arts colleges, but 30 or 40 thousand dollars doesn't go very far when you add it up. 



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I didnt intend to get a greek thing going when I replied to the out of state students.


My point is simply students pick their school like some of us pick shoes.


"I want to go to school at XXX and be a xxx, its easier(cheaper) to pledge at *** so I will go there and transfer to XXX and still be a xxx"



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"Seeker brings up an interesting point. From the first time I taught freshmen as a TA (about 20 years ago) I have strongly believed that first-semester freshmen should not be allowed to rush or pledge. I've seen too many of them advsersely affected. They need those first few months to totally focus on school work, getting used to the big differences in high school and college, being away from home, and all of that.

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I could not agree more. I actually proposed this to the IFC executive council. I suggested we delay formal rush for incoming freshmen until the spring semester of their freshman year, while allowing only non-freshmen (transfers, JUCO's, sophs) students to pledge in the fall. It would have balanced pledge classes from fall to spring, and been in my opinion better for the students, organizations and the system as a whole.

It was shot down by a 2-5 vote, and never made it to the IFC general council.



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"How is USM for students are not in the Greek system?"


Frosh:

Your question seems to have gotten lost in a food fight among the "grown-ups" here. I have many students who are in fraternities/sororities and many more who are not. Both groups seem happy with their choices and with the friends they find at USM. There seems to be mainly peaceful coexistence between the two groups. Your choice should be made based on which environment you find most appealing--there are plenty of activities and groups at USM for students who prefer not to be part of the Greek system.

Welcome aboard!

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Incoming Frosh

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Wow!


Thanks for all the very helpful, constructive feedback.   I really appreciate the discussion.  My fear was that a resident student would be out of place if the on-campus community was primarily Greek.  It sounds instead like there is a nice mix.  Whoever suggested spring rush for freshman, I think that's a great idea.   Meanwhile, dorm life.



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A lot depends on what you make of it. If you are interested in campus office, you get an automatic organization. You can get a tremendous amount of experience in organizing events, handling finances, etc.

Cautionary notes: Don't get so involved in even the good parts of Greeks that your grades suffer. Don't get involved in the late hours and big parties to that extent either. Don't let your Greek friends be your only friends.

In my opinion you sometimes get the best experience by choosing a frat/sorority counter to your previous experiences. If you are the introverted, studious type - join the Animal House. If you are a partier, join one of that is highly disciplined. That way you get your horizons expanded.

Remember that even at a very Greek university, the Greeks account for only 1/7 of the population, so there is no great pressure to join.


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"How is USM for students are not in the Greek system?"


Incoming Frosh,


When I went to college people went to study a particular filed that they love.  If they couldn't do that they didn't attend college, but rather pursued other avenues.  Now people seem to attend college for all sorts of reasons, some of which have nothing to do with an education. 


That said, I agree with some of the things Seeker has mentioned.  However, my friends and I were in the area of science and engineering.  We used to joked that, "we could flunk out without the help of a fraternity".  The "serious students" tended to join the student organizations and clubs related to their discipline, for example, engineers joined engineering, physics and math societies.  We even got into the philosophy club.  There were a lot of social activities in addition to professional programs.   These organizations helped us grow professionally and prepared us for grad school, but unlike fraternities and sororities, had both men and women.  We learned leadership skills as chairpersons of committees, as well as, holding an office of the organization.  Of course much of this was learned in high school, but our skills grew in organizing meeting and speaking before large groups.  Some engaged in undergraduate research and presented papers at student professional meetings.  


I had friends in high school that majored in business.  They found fraternities very beneficial for making contacts and networking.  (The old, “who you know is more important than what you know” they would say.)  So its works for some.


Now for the stereotyping.  My group had the feeling the frats were more interested in the “symbols” of education rather than the education.  Frats had copies of old test for almost any professor and worked very hard to get a high grade.  On occasion they would obtain a copy of a test to be given and pass it around to the members of their frat.  Even some of the good, serious frat students gave into this pressure and would use these test to get an edge.  A frat friend told me the competition against the other frat houses drove this obsession for the high grade.  Of course, they were not getting an education, but they were “beating the profs test” as they put it.


Finally, some profs would complain about the amount of time they had to waste from research just to make up new test every time.  This caused some to give fewer test and quizzes just to save time.  Others would not even return the test. That diminished the feedback we got on our progress in that course.  


So getting into the Greek system has its ups and downs for the whole university.


Hope some of these ideas help.  


 


 



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I'm sure that I will raise some hackles and be castigated for promoting stereotypes, but I have to say that almost without exception the greeks that I encountered on campus were a**holes. I had friends who lived in the (soon to be demolished) pinehaven that constantly had to complain about the noise and trash scattered all about from frat row. The campus police, predictably, mostly ignored their complaints. The most disrespectful, inconsiderate, noisy neighbors in my apartment complex were greeks. They were vindictive too-- throwing trash on our balcony because my roommates and I complained about loud parties. I had two friends that were formerly in sororities that left them because they couldn't take the elitism and condescension towards non-greeks. Greeks tend to dominate the political process on campus because they vote in blocks for greek candidates for office. This means that their agendas get more representation in student government. I felt that most non-greeks resented this (although, arguably, it was our own fault-- we do outnumber them). If this is the sort of "leadership" that greeks favor, I wanted no part of it.

Some of you will say that my experiences are from encounters with the minority of "bad" greeks and that most don't exhibit that sort of behavior. Well, that may be true under ordinary circumstances, but I have noticed that a sort of "mob mentality" permeates the gatherings of greeks which encourages behavior that some members would never contemplate on their own. I resent that my taxes are used to promote this sort of moneyed elitism on campus.

Here endeth the rant

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Alumnist, there are three reasons for your experience:

Alcohol, alcohol, alcohol.

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Originally posted by: Seeker
" The point that I am making and you keep missing is this. Being a member of a Greek organization gives a student a connection to the University that they usually would not have without it. It gives incentive to come back to the University, to give back to the University. As for the study, the IFC wanted to see what % of donors university wide were Greeks. The report if I remember correctly had nothing to do with dollar amount giving. Again sighting from memory, over 80% of individuals giving to USM were Greek. Yet, at no time in USM's history has the Greek population exceeded 15%. I think Greeks give back to USM in a higher rate because, they are more connected with the University, that's all. You hate Greek organizations, that's clear. You're not going to change any minds here. I think, you are just using a classic leftist guise of class-warfare. "


I'm conservative and I don't think much of the Greek system either.






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